CROSSROADS

Crossroads are a wonderful place to be because you have so many options. You can go forward, return the way you came, or go in a new direction, either to the right or to the left.
Crossroads aren’t always welcome, though, because they force people to make decisions, and that can be an uncomfortable process. Especially in the case of major or potentially life-changing decisions, no one really likes the hard work of thinking and praying the matter through, the soul-searching involved.

I use the crossroads of life to help some people come to terms with mistakes or wrong turns they’ve made, and to give them a chance to get going in the right direction. For others who haven’t been off track, it’s a chance to go in a new direction that will make them even happier and get them farther in the long run. For yet others, it’s a time to confirm that they’re going in the right direction, so they can continue with the vigor that renewed conviction brings. Whatever the case, whenever someone comes to a crossroads, it’s an opportunity, because if they ask Me which way they should go, I’ll show them.
You can’t fail as long as you’re looking to Me and are open to whatever road I have for you. Maybe it will be something you’ve never done before. It might even be something you’re afraid to do. Or it could be the same thing that you’ve done for years. Whichever road I ask you to take I will also equip you for, even if you don’t think you have what it will take right now. As you take a step in the direction I’m leading you, I’ll give you what it takes. If you need more faith, I’ll give you more faith. If you need more courage, I’ll give you more courage. If you need more love, I’ll give you more love. If you need more strength or perseverance, I’ll give you those things. Step by step, as you follow Me, I will continue to do that. Whatever you need for your journey, I’ll give you that.
So instead of being afraid of those crossroad signs, you can look forward to them with anticipation, knowing that I’m by your side to instruct you and guide you and help you. I know your heart, and I know where you will be happiest and most fulfilled. If you don’t know where that is, just ask Me to point you in the right direction and start walking. I am always with you, no matter where you are and what you’re doing. I’m right beside you each step of the way. As you learn to hear My voice in your mind, pointing the way, you’ll really make progress. I love you, and I’ll never fail you.
—Jesus

10 wrong Reasons to get married

10 WRONG REASONS TO GET MARRIED

1. The desire to have non-stop sex and a sleeping mate. Do you want to get married because you need sex badly? Please get this straight, so as not to put your future partner in health hazard.

2. To save, help or because you pity someone. Don't ever agree to marry someone simply because you just pity their condition. This kind of marriage will sap the joy oflife from you.

3.For money / financial purpose; you are not in love with the person but you want to marry the fellow simply because he/she is rich. Think again. Who ever told you that you won't make it in life?

4.The fantasy to wear a wedding gown.

5. In need of someone to do your laundry, house chores and cooking

6. THE DESIRE TO BE INDEPENDENT AND FREE FROM YOUR PARENTS
Getting married because you are tired of having your parents monitor or control you is not enough a good reason to get married; your husband's parents or relatives could do worse.

7.TO EASE YOUR LONELINESS
Loneliness is a thing of the mind. Not only singles but married folks too gets lonely at times. No spouse will be with you all round the clock. A miserable single will be a miserable partner in marriage. Marriage doesn't solve the problem of loneliness. There are countless married folks who are living apart from their spouse due to many reasons e.g Job, career pursuit e.t.c.

8. TO BE HAPPY
You don't have to get married before you live a happy life. Get a life as a single, enjoy life, make God your source of joy. Find a reason to laugh everyday and enjoy every opportunity of laughter life presents to you. Marriage is a vacuum, it will be filled with whatsoever you and your partner bring in to it.

9.JUST GETTING SICK OF BEING CALLED A SINGLE
You don't need a man or woman to complete yourself. You are wonderfully and marvelously created. Single-hood is just a phase of your life, enjoy it, pursue a career, set and achieve goals. One day you would wish you are still a single if you rush into marriage simply because you are tired of being a single.

10. ALL MY FRIENDS ARE MARRIED

Don't rush into marriage because all your friends are married with kids.

7 keys to Breakthrough in 2014

7 Keys to Breakthrough in 2014

As this week marks the beginning of yet another journey , there are rules that must be applied strictly in order to achieve results this year 2014. Every year has its Do's and Don't's and likewise its keys.
Highlighted below are the God-inspired keys to breakthrough in 2014

1. Re-dedication : we need to rededicate our lives back to God all over again this year , we need a complete overhaul of our spiritual engine.
Psalm 42,
Isaiah 1 : 18
Until you get totally committed to serving God to the fullest and doing His will , He can't get committed to meeting all your needs, Remember its a conditional Promise , "Come close to me and I will draw near you.

2. Walk - Uprightly : only those who will walk uprightly this year 2014 will be blessed beyond curse,
Psalm 15;
Nothing can take the place of walking uprightly, and blameless before God ,


3. Evangelize the Word : Do the work of an evangelist , let everything you do this year speak christ and preach the gospel
Fish for christ , its all about the lost outside.

4. Acquire Knowledge where necessary : many a christian have lost vital opportunities by simply throwing caution in the wind and neglecting the simple things that count , A christian philosopher and Preacher once said ; "Pray as if IT all depends on God and Work as if it all depeneds on You " when you need to do your part by seeking knowledge , do so diligently
Prov 13:20,
Prov 24 : 5
Never underestimate the place of learning. How much you know determines how far you go

5. Grow Your Faith : build your faith by getting close to His word , only with a good understanding of Gods word and promises can you stand firm even in the face of difficulties .....
Psalm 125,

6. Move : don't stay stagnant and expect a kind of mystical force to propel you to where you need to be, until you learn to take steps , you may never move forward , the secret of becoming great is simply starting it, Remember ; You don't have to be Great to get started , but you have to get started to be great . It takes conscious steps to achieving your goals.
Prov 22 : 29
Get committed to something meaningful , be diligent , work hard and work smart.

7. Write out the Vision Now!!!!!!! A man without vision is a man without Directions , and a man without directions will end up arriving at nowhere . Where you'll get to this year will be determined by the vision you draw now , what the year will bring will be as a result of your vision of it now , the wind never blows fair for the sailor who knows not to what port he is bound.
If you don't know where you are going from the start of the journey , you can't hope to arrive at a destination of peace and joy .
It is your vision that will fire your engines to keep moving when test times comes, knowing what you want is the greatest secret of getting what you want ......
Prov 29 : 18

In His Service
Pastor Peter E.O.T CBT
Royal Diadem Consulting
Corporate training , Relationship and marriage counseling , Life coaching , IT and educational consultancy
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77 keys to Breakthrough in 2014

7 Keys to Breakthrough in 2014

As this week marks the beginning of yet another journey , there are rules that must be applied strictly in order to achieve results this year 2014. Every year has its Do's and Don't's and likewise its keys.
Highlighted below are the God-inspired keys to breakthrough in 2014

1. Re-dedication : we need to rededicate our lives back to God all over again this year , we need a complete overhaul of our spiritual engine.
Psalm 42,
Isaiah 1 : 18
Until you get totally committed to serving God to the fullest and doing His will , He can't get committed to meeting all your needs, Remember its a conditional Promise , "Come close to me and I will draw near you.

2. Walk - Uprightly : only those who will walk uprightly this year 2014 will be blessed beyond curse,
Psalm 15;
Nothing can take the place of walking uprightly, and blameless before God ,


3. Evangelize the Word : Do the work of an evangelist , let everything you do this year speak christ and preach the gospel
Fish for christ , its all about the lost outside.

4. Acquire Knowledge where necessary : many a christian have lost vital opportunities by simply throwing caution in the wind and neglecting the simple things that count , A christian philosopher and Preacher once said ; "Pray as if IT all depends on God and Work as if it all depeneds on You " when you need to do your part by seeking knowledge , do so diligently
Prov 13:20,
Prov 24 : 5
Never underestimate the place of learning. How much you know determines how far you go

5. Grow Your Faith : build your faith by getting close to His word , only with a good understanding of Gods word and promises can you stand firm even in the face of difficulties .....
Psalm 125,

6. Move : don't stay stagnant and expect a kind of mystical force to propel you to where you need to be, until you learn to take steps , you may never move forward , the secret of becoming great is simply starting it, Remember ; You don't have to be Great to get started , but you have to get started to be great . It takes conscious steps to achieving your goals.
Prov 22 : 29
Get committed to something meaningful , be diligent , work hard and work smart.

7. Write out the Vision Now!!!!!!! A man without vision is a man without Directions , and a man without directions will end up arriving at nowhere . Where you'll get to this year will be determined by the vision you draw now , what the year will bring will be as a result of your vision of it now , the wind never blows fair for the sailor who knows not to what port he is bound.
If you don't know where you are going from the start of the journey , you can't hope to arrive at a destination of peace and joy .
It is your vision that will fire your engines to keep moving when test times comes, knowing what you want is the greatest secret of getting what you want ......
Prov 29 : 18

In His Service
Pastor Peter E.O.T CBT
Royal Diadem Consulting
Corporate training , Relationship and marriage counseling , Life coaching , IT and educational consultancy
BBM : 32daa7f5
Whatsapp : 08064822535
Blog : www.de-diademconsults.blogspot.com

77 keys to Breakthrough in 2014

7 Keys to Breakthrough in 2014

As this week marks the beginning of yet another journey , there are rules that must be applied strictly in order to achieve results this year 2014. Every year has its Do's and Don't's and likewise its keys.
Highlighted below are the God-inspired keys to breakthrough in 2014

1. Re-dedication : we need to rededicate our lives back to God all over again this year , we need a complete overhaul of our spiritual engine.
Psalm 42,
Isaiah 1 : 18
Until you get totally committed to serving God to the fullest and doing His will , He can't get committed to meeting all your needs, Remember its a conditional Promise , "Come close to me and I will draw near you.

2. Walk - Uprightly : only those who will walk uprightly this year 2014 will be blessed beyond curse,
Psalm 15;
Nothing can take the place of walking uprightly, and blameless before God ,


3. Evangelize the Word : Do the work of an evangelist , let everything you do this year speak christ and preach the gospel
Fish for christ , its all about the lost outside.

4. Acquire Knowledge where necessary : many a christian have lost vital opportunities by simply throwing caution in the wind and neglecting the simple things that count , A christian philosopher and Preacher once said ; "Pray as if IT all depends on God and Work as if it all depeneds on You " when you need to do your part by seeking knowledge , do so diligently
Prov 13:20,
Prov 24 : 5
Never underestimate the place of learning. How much you know determines how far you go

5. Grow Your Faith : build your faith by getting close to His word , only with a good understanding of Gods word and promises can you stand firm even in the face of difficulties .....
Psalm 125,

6. Move : don't stay stagnant and expect a kind of mystical force to propel you to where you need to be, until you learn to take steps , you may never move forward , the secret of becoming great is simply starting it, Remember ; You don't have to be Great to get started , but you have to get started to be great . It takes conscious steps to achieving your goals.
Prov 22 : 29
Get committed to something meaningful , be diligent , work hard and work smart.

7. Write out the Vision Now!!!!!!! A man without vision is a man without Directions , and a man without directions will end up arriving at nowhere . Where you'll get to this year will be determined by the vision you draw now , what the year will bring will be as a result of your vision of it now , the wind never blows fair for the sailor who knows not to what port he is bound.
If you don't know where you are going from the start of the journey , you can't hope to arrive at a destination of peace and joy .
It is your vision that will fire your engines to keep moving when test times comes, knowing what you want is the greatest secret of getting what you want ......
Prov 29 : 18

In His Service
Pastor Peter E.O.T CBT
Royal Diadem Consulting
Corporate training , Relationship and marriage counseling , Life coaching , IT and educational consultancy
BBM : 32daa7f5
Whatsapp : 08064822535
Blog : www.de-diademconsults.blogspot.com

10 Worst Quotes of 2013

10 Worst 2013 Quotes By Nigerian Public Figures
Posted by admin@aproko247 on December 24, 20130 Comment
Words, like they say, are like eggs and when broken, cannot be made whole again. No doubt, the outgoing year 2013 has been eventful and has also witnessed some trending events.
Some public figures, who should be very careful of what they say in public, have said many rather unfortunate words, which received widespread criticisms. Some were reckless with what they said in the heat of sad and difficult situations.
We have compiled 10 worst quotes uttered in 2013 by some Nigerian public figures. Enjoy.
10. “Come, sit on my laps and I will show you a level of grace you do not understand.”–Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo of COZA. made the above statement and was revealed by Ese Walter, who alleged that the man of God slept with her hiding under the grace of God. Fatoyinbo later disclosed that he would react to the allegations when God tells him to do so.
9. “God is a democrat, [he] does not support rigging, but if you rig and succeed, that means God approves of it.”
Governor Jonah Jang of Plateau State made this statement during the NGF Chairmanship saga with Governor Rotimi Amaechi, which he clearly lost, but went ahead to parade himself as winner of the election.
8. “I was not a tribalist when I had a long-standing and intimate relationship with Miss Bianca Onoh, an Igbo lady.”–Femi Fani-Kayode during the Lagos deportation of Igbos to Anambra State. He was later forced to retract the statement when Bianca threatened him with a lawsuit.
7. “Any academic (ASUU) staff who fails to resume on or before December 4, 2013 automatically ceases to be a staff of the institution and Vice-Chancellors are also directed to advertise vacancies in their institutions.”–Minister of Education, Nyesom Wike, in the midst of the ASUU strike, which was only called off some days ago.
6. “We have stolen billions of dollars, what did you do? We steal because you never stoned us for it.”–Governor Rotimi Amechi of Rivers State while paying tribute to late Nelson Mandela, who died on December 5, 2013.
5. “Yes, Patience Jonathan is my Jesus Christ”–Evan Bipi, a member of the Rivers State House of Assembly disclosed this during the Rivers House brouhaha, which forced the National Assembly to take over the state Assembly.
4. “We do not pray for accidents but it is inevitable… we do everything to ensure that we do not have accidents, but it is an act of God.”–Stella Oduah, Minister of Aviation, while addressing journalists three days after 16 people died in the Associated Airlines crash, which was conveying the corpse of Olusegun Agagu, a former Aviation Minister and Governor of Osun State.
3. “As the President, I don’t know him (Abu Shekau, wanted Boko Haram leader) and [I] don’t know if he is dead or alive; you journalists will know more than us. You are the ones who talk to Boko Haram.”–President Goodluck Ebele Jonathan said this in a Presidential Media chat in Abuja.
2. “I cannot categorically tell you one now…the one we are going to make use of is going to be made known by my oga at the top.”–Obafaiye Shem, former Lagos State Commandant of the Nigeria Security and Civil Defence Corps, NSCDC, made this statement when asked to state the website of NSCDC during an interview with Channels TV.
1. “You are a widow, go and die.”–Governor Adams Oshiomhole of Edo State told a widow caught breaking the law in Benin City, the state capital. He later apologised for the statement and offered the poor widow N2 million and made her his Special Assistant on Environment Matters.

whenever the devil reminds me of my past , i always remind him of my future. it doesn't matter how 'bad' your past may seem , your tomorrow is brighter.

whenever the devil reminds me of my past , i always remind him of my future. it doesn't matter how 'bad' your past may seem , your tomorrow is brighter.

Thankfulness : Psalm 124

Daily Reflection
Sat 14 Dec., '13
Thankfulness
Psalm 107 : 1 - 8

"8.........o that men would praise the lord for his goodness, and for his wonderful works to the children of men.

The greatest secret of living is thanking God, and you can't be a good thanker if you're not a good thinker.
Only someone who can think-well can thank-well.

You might have requested a hundred things from God and @the moment , you've received answers to twenty or fewer, Yes He deserves praise. Remember, It is of the lords mercies that we are not consumed, because his compassions fail not.....Great is His faithfulness unto us

The greatest gift you've received is the gift of life , the fact that you're alive gives us assurance that your best is yet to come, so forget about the failures , disappointments , setbacks and inadequacies of this year , start thanking God for all the innumerable blessings you've received since the start of the year .

Until you learn how to sing and dance , even in the rain , you can't receive more from God, cos if you can't thank Him for the little then you can't manage His Plenty.

God wants to commit plenty into your hands but he wants to check your faithfulness in the little and it all begins with thanking him even for the little.

Countless number of plane crashes , tsunamis , tremors, hurricanes , earth quakes , road accidents and the list goes on and on, but here you are today, alive ......so he deserves your praise , forget about the unanswered prayers , forget about those your pressing needs , forget about your enemy ,

Psalm 124 : if it had not been the lord who was on our side, now may Israel say ; if it had not been the lord who was on our side , when men rose up against us: ....................................Blessed be the lord , who hath not given us as a prey to their teeth.


 Let His Praise ring out Now
Worrying , complaining and murmuring lead to nowhere ! Stop the murmuring and start Praising God remember His grace has sustained you this far so be still His Grace will see you through.

Good morning and Happy weekend
Pastor E.O.T William CBT
De-diadem Consulting
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Are you God's wife?

Are you God's wife?

It was a cold day in December. A little boy about 10-year-old was standing before a shoe store on Broadway in New York City. He was barefoot, peering through the window, and shivering with cold.

A lady approached the boy and said, “My little fellow, why are you looking so earnestly in that window?”

“I was asking God to give me a pair of shoes,” was the boy’s reply.

The lady took him by the hand and went into the store, and asked the clerk to get a half dozen pairs of socks for the boy. She then asked if he could give her a basin of water and a towel. He quickly brought them to her. She took the little fellow to the back part of the store and, removing her gloves, knelt down, washed his little feet, and dried them with a towel.

By this time the clerk had returned with the socks. Placing a pair upon the boy’s feet, she then purchased him a pair of shoes, and tying up the remaining pairs of socks, gave them to him. She patted him on the head and said, “No doubt, my little fellow, you feel more comfortable now?”

As she turned to go, the astonished lad caught her by the hand, and looking up in her face, with tears in his eyes, answered the question with these words: “Are you God’s wife?”


LESSON
Be the Light in someone else's dark world...........make a sad heart joyful , put a smile on someone' s face .............We are God's asset manager and remember His people are his greatest asset......Manage them well

Good morning

Are you God's wife?

Are you God's wife?

It was a cold day in December. A little boy about 10-year-old was standing before a shoe store on Broadway in New York City. He was barefoot, peering through the window, and shivering with cold.

A lady approached the boy and said, “My little fellow, why are you looking so earnestly in that window?”

“I was asking God to give me a pair of shoes,” was the boy’s reply.

The lady took him by the hand and went into the store, and asked the clerk to get a half dozen pairs of socks for the boy. She then asked if he could give her a basin of water and a towel. He quickly brought them to her. She took the little fellow to the back part of the store and, removing her gloves, knelt down, washed his little feet, and dried them with a towel.

By this time the clerk had returned with the socks. Placing a pair upon the boy’s feet, she then purchased him a pair of shoes, and tying up the remaining pairs of socks, gave them to him. She patted him on the head and said, “No doubt, my little fellow, you feel more comfortable now?”

As she turned to go, the astonished lad caught her by the hand, and looking up in her face, with tears in his eyes, answered the question with these words: “Are you God’s wife?”


LESSON
Be the Light in someone else's dark world...........make a sad heart joyful , put a smile on someone' s face .............We are God's asset manager and remember His people are his greatest asset......Manage them well

Good morning

Are you God's wife?

Are you God's wife?

It was a cold day in December. A little boy about 10-year-old was standing before a shoe store on Broadway in New York City. He was barefoot, peering through the window, and shivering with cold.

A lady approached the boy and said, “My little fellow, why are you looking so earnestly in that window?”

“I was asking God to give me a pair of shoes,” was the boy’s reply.

The lady took him by the hand and went into the store, and asked the clerk to get a half dozen pairs of socks for the boy. She then asked if he could give her a basin of water and a towel. He quickly brought them to her. She took the little fellow to the back part of the store and, removing her gloves, knelt down, washed his little feet, and dried them with a towel.

By this time the clerk had returned with the socks. Placing a pair upon the boy’s feet, she then purchased him a pair of shoes, and tying up the remaining pairs of socks, gave them to him. She patted him on the head and said, “No doubt, my little fellow, you feel more comfortable now?”

As she turned to go, the astonished lad caught her by the hand, and looking up in her face, with tears in his eyes, answered the question with these words: “Are you God’s wife?”


LESSON
Be the Light in someone else's dark world...........make a sad heart joyful , put a smile on someone' s face .............We are God's asset manager and remember His people are his greatest asset......Manage them well

Good morning

Are you God's wife?

Are you God's wife?

It was a cold day in December. A little boy about 10-year-old was standing before a shoe store on Broadway in New York City. He was barefoot, peering through the window, and shivering with cold.

A lady approached the boy and said, “My little fellow, why are you looking so earnestly in that window?”

“I was asking God to give me a pair of shoes,” was the boy’s reply.

The lady took him by the hand and went into the store, and asked the clerk to get a half dozen pairs of socks for the boy. She then asked if he could give her a basin of water and a towel. He quickly brought them to her. She took the little fellow to the back part of the store and, removing her gloves, knelt down, washed his little feet, and dried them with a towel.

By this time the clerk had returned with the socks. Placing a pair upon the boy’s feet, she then purchased him a pair of shoes, and tying up the remaining pairs of socks, gave them to him. She patted him on the head and said, “No doubt, my little fellow, you feel more comfortable now?”

As she turned to go, the astonished lad caught her by the hand, and looking up in her face, with tears in his eyes, answered the question with these words: “Are you God’s wife?”


LESSON
Be the Light in someone else's dark world...........make a sad heart joyful , put a smile on someone' s face .............We are God's asset manager and remember His people are his greatest asset......Manage them well

Good morning

YOU NEED GOD!

ROYAL DIADEM CONSULTING DAILY WORD

Daily Reflections

Pastor E.O.T William CBT

Tuesday 26^th November

YOU NEED GOD!

Ref: Prov 21: 31; Ecc 7 : 14 ; Jer 9 : 23 ; Amos 2: 14

It doesn’t matter how far or how high you’ve risen in life, you can’t sustain your exploits without God.

No God-made mad can self-Exist; we are all built and fashioned to depend solely on God. We need God everyday of our lives; not only in our distress times.

Any equation or arrangement that doesn’t begin and end in God is incomplete and bound to fail. It is God that brings productivity to our labour.

It doesn’t matter how wise, learned or educated, connected, influential or endowed you may be, you can’t survive life’s challenges without God.

Ecc 9: 11 …………I returned and saw under the sun , that the race is not to the swift, nor the battle to the strong, neither yet bread to the wise , nor yet riches to men of understanding , nor yet favour to men of skill; but time and chance happeneth to them all.

When you take away God from Man’s Life what you get is DOOM, the need for God goes far beyond just protection and provision for our needs. Remember it all started from Him at creation, so the sustenance of all men rests solely in Him alone.

Prov 21: 31 …… the horse is Prepared against the day of battle: but VICTORY is of the Lord.

King Saul crash landed his journey not because he never knew God; He did start with and in God but God’s place in His life became vacant, therefore His Fall was inevitable.

Ecc 7:14 ……..in the day of prosperity be joyful, but in the day of adversity consider; God also hath set the one over against the other , to the end that man should find NOTHING after him.

God has so built us excellently that even the wisest, strongest and richest of men always have a void in their lives that only God can fill. This simply means no man can out-grow the need for God.

How and where you started in life is not really as important as where and how you end it. Only God can guarantee a safe landing.

Only God can turn a man’s LABOUR to FAVOUR

STRESS to BLESSINGS

RACE to GRACE

LET US PRAY!

Our Dear sovereign Lord, having examined your word we’ve found ourselves lacking in our duty to you, the chiefest of which is to Trust completely in You, we have been trying to run solo or walk alone , we acknowledge now that without You we are just an empty piece of matter, we therefore ask for the Grace to completely trust in you from now till the end, , we now ask that all our wasted years be restored and that all our labour be turned to Favour in Jesus Name.

Amen

Pastor E.O.T William CBT

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